怎么样成为有魅力的男人，Quora精选：怎样成为一个更有魅力的男人？

有什么生活技巧能让一个男人看上去更帅气/迷人？来看看Quora上的高赞回答。

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获得3.8k好评的答案@James L Moyer

1. Clothes that fit.

合身的衣服。

A few of us are gifted with dimensions that allow us to purchase straight off the rack. But most men (myself included) absolutely need to have custom-fitted clothing. Do this. Cut the number of clothes you buy in half. And double what you spend on each item. You will look great and feel great when your clothes fit perfectly.

我们中的少数人是天生衣架子，能够直接买现成的衣服，但是大部分人（包括我自己）十分需要穿量身定做的衣服。这样做吧，把你要买的衣服数量减半，然后每件衣服花双倍的价格。当你穿着超级合身的衣服时，你看起来会很棒，自己感觉也很棒。

2. Assume everyone likes you.

假定每个人都喜欢你。

Take the lead when meeting people. Pretend you are a host or that you have the responsibility to help others enjoy themselves in a conversation. Most people are awkward or nervous in social situations, so if you take the pressure off of them, theyll love you for it and see you as more attractive.

在和别人聚会的时候占据主动，假装你是主人或是你有责任帮助他人在谈话中觉得尽兴。大部分人在社交场合会笨手笨脚或是紧张，所以如果你让他们减轻压力，他们就会因此喜欢你，觉得你很迷人。

3. Find a friend who always looks sharp. Ask them for tips for you.

去找看起来总是很时髦的朋友，向他们讨教技巧。

4. Believe you are handsome. Confidence is attractive.

相信自己很吸引人，有自信就是吸引人。

获得455好评的答案@Cynth Chan

1. Carry your prop

带上你的道具。

Book! Nothing beats a guy with a book. I really really really really like seeing a guy with a book resting near him. *Bonus point* – if hes actually reading it.

书！拿着书的男人天下无敌。我非常非常非常非常喜欢看一个男人身边搁着一本书的样子。加分点——如果他确实在看这本书的话。

Pet. I like seeing a guy who treats his pet well. They seem more attractive and make people assume they will actually be a good father someday.

宠物。我喜欢看一个男人温柔对待他家宠物的样子。他们看起来更有魅力而且让大家认为他们将来一定会成为一个好爸爸。

Scarf, sunglasses, beanie, coffee or anything that you think suits you best.

围巾、墨镜、帽子、咖啡或任何你觉得最适合你的东西。

2. Cleanliness is next to Godliness – Little things matter.

清洁近乎神圣——小细节是关键。

Trim your nails or at least keep them clean and tidy.

修剪你的指甲，或者，至少保持干净整洁。

Teeth, this is so important. I secretly judge peoples teeth when they talk. Its always nice to know when someone takes good care of their teeth. It gives an impression that they actually take care of themselves.

牙齿，这太重要了。当别人说话的时候我会悄悄地评判他们的牙齿。当我知道这个人用心护理牙齿时，我会感觉很不错，这也给人以一种印象，他们实际上也很用心照顾自己。

3. Learn how to cook​.

学会煮饭。

You dont have to cook like Gordon Ramsay or any Michelin chefs and we dont expect you to be like them either but it would be really great if you know how to cook something simple.

你不需要像戈登·拉姆齐（英国顶级厨师）或米其林大厨那样，我们也不指望你像他们一样，但是如果你知道怎么煮一些简单的菜式，那就真的很棒了。

A study was carried out and revealed that women find men most sexy when they are working in the kitchen, NOT when carrying manly tasks.

有项研究表明女人觉得男人在厨房工作的时候最性感，而不是在做一些“有男人味”的事情的时候。